I was thirty-six weeks pregnant, exhausted beyond words, and on my hands and knees scrubbing the cold marble floors while my mother-in-law stood over me with folded arms, watching every movement like a strict supervisor. My back ached, my feet were swollen, and every breath felt heavy, but according to her, I was simply โlazy.โ

That day changed everything.
From the moment I married into the family, my mother-in-law, Patricia, had made her opinion of me painfully clear. Nothing I did was ever good enough. The meals I cooked were too bland, the house was never clean enough, and even the way I spoke was โimproper.โ But when I became pregnant, her criticism reached a whole new level.
Instead of showing concern or support, she began insisting that pregnancy was โnot an illnessโ and that women in her time worked until the very day they gave birth. She frequently reminded me how she had managed everything perfectly without ever complaining.
My husband, Daniel, worked long hours and rarely witnessed her behavior. Whenever I tried to explain what was happening, he would sigh and say, โThatโs just how Mom is. She means well.โ
But she did not mean well.
By my eighth month of pregnancy, she had practically moved into our home โto help.โ Her version of help meant assigning me endless tasks while she supervised from the couch. She would inspect the shelves with her finger for dust, criticize how I folded laundry, and complain loudly about my โlack of energy.โ
โYou young women are so weak,โ she would say with a dismissive wave. โPregnancy is not an excuse to be lazy.โ
I tried to endure it for the sake of peace in the family. I convinced myself it was temporary. But as my due date approached, my body struggled more each day. Simple movements left me breathless, and sharp pains would shoot through my abdomen when I stood too long.
Still, Patricia demanded more.
That morning, she pointed to the living room floor with a look of disapproval.
โThese floors are filthy,โ she declared. โGuests will be visiting soon. Get down and scrub them properly.โ
โI can mop them,โ I suggested gently, holding my aching back. โThe doctor said I shouldnโt bend too muchโโ
She interrupted me with a scoff.
โExcuses. When I was pregnant, I scrubbed floors, cooked for ten people, and still looked presentable. Youโre just lazy.โ
Her words stung, but exhaustion left me too weak to argue. Slowly, I lowered myself to the floor, bucket beside me, cloth in trembling hands.
Minutes turned into hours.
The cold marble pressed against my knees as I scrubbed, each movement sending waves of discomfort through my body. My back burned, my stomach tightened repeatedly, and dizziness blurred my vision. But Patricia remained nearby, occasionally pointing out spots I had missed.
โPut more effort into it,โ she insisted. โYouโre barely trying.โ
I felt humiliated, powerless, and utterly alone.
Then suddenly, a sharp pain gripped my abdomen, stronger than anything before. I gasped, clutching my belly as the room seemed to spin.
Patricia frowned impatiently.
โDonโt be dramatic,โ she said. โFinish the floor first.โ
Before I could respond, the front door opened.
My husband entered alongside our obstetrician, who had come for a scheduled home checkup due to some concerns about my recent symptoms. The doctorโs warm greeting quickly turned into alarm the moment she saw me.
I was on the floor, pale, sweating, struggling to breathe.
โWhat are you doing?โ she demanded urgently, rushing toward me.
Danielโs face went white as he helped me sit up. The doctor quickly checked my pulse, blood pressure, and abdomen. Her expression grew serious within seconds.
โShe should not be doing any physical labor,โ the doctor said firmly. โHer blood pressure is dangerously high, and sheโs showing signs of severe pregnancy complications.โ
The room fell silent.
Patricia shifted uncomfortably. โI was only encouraging her to stay active,โ she said defensively. โSheโs been very lazy lately.โ
The doctor turned toward her, her voice sharp and unwavering.
โThis is not laziness. This is a high-risk pregnancy. Excessive physical strain could trigger premature labor, endanger the baby, or even threaten her life.โ
The words struck the room like thunder.
Daniel looked at his mother in disbelief. โYou made her scrub the floors?โ
Patricia tried to defend herself, but the authority in the doctorโs voice left no room for argument.
โShe requires immediate rest,โ the doctor continued. โFrom this moment forward, she is not to perform any strenuous tasks. She needs care, support, and a stress-free environment.โ