Hi everyone! I have a funny (and a little eye-opening) story to share about how I turned a frustrating situation at home into something better—with a touch of creativity and a whole lot of love.
Let me start with this: my husband, Adam, loves his morning baths. Not quick ones, either—we’re talking hour-long, peaceful escapes with candles, music, and his favorite bath oils. He calls it his “sacred morning time.”
Usually, I let it be. But one morning changed everything.
The Day Everything Fell Apart
I had a very important job interview. I was running late and needed help getting the kids dressed, fed, and out the door. I asked Adam if he could lend a hand—just for one morning.
He smiled and said, **“Sweetie, my bath is my peaceful time. You’re great with the kids—you’ve got this.”**
And just like that, he was gone—bubbles and all.
I held it together, but it wasn’t easy. The morning was a whirlwind of breakfast spills, missing shoes, and spilled juice. I barely made it to my interview—and unfortunately, I was too late. I didn’t get the job.
That night, I couldn’t stop thinking about how unsupported I felt. So instead of getting upset, I decided to gently shift the dynamic—with humor, patience, and a bit of imagination.
### Creative Changes
The next morning, I woke up early and made a few playful changes to his usual bath setup:
* Swapped his calming playlist for the kids’ favorite energetic tunes (think dancing animals and sing-alongs).
* Gave him different bath oils that were a bit more… unexpected.
* Lowered the hot water just slightly, enough to notice, but nothing uncomfortable.
The results were subtle but clear—Adam was surprised. But I didn’t gloat or argue. I just smiled and said, **“Sometimes, we all need support in the morning.”**
He listened. But the long baths didn’t stop—yet.
Lighthearted Lessons
Next, I introduced some gentle humor into the situation. I placed a few of the kids’ rubber duckies in the tub and let a silly recording of pirate sounds play in the background. The goal wasn’t to frustrate him—it was to make him laugh and reflect.
When he came out smiling (albeit confused), I reminded him, **“We’re in this together. Morning time is a team effort.”**
Little by little, things started to shift.
A Kinder Routine for Both of Us
Over time, Adam began adjusting. He still took his baths, but shortened them. And—most importantly—he started helping with the kids beforehand. Packing lunches. Finding shoes. Making breakfast together. Mornings became smoother, less stressful, and even kind of fun.
He even told me, “I didn’t realize how much you were juggling. I want to be more present.”
That meant the world to me.
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**The Takeaway?**
Sometimes, a little creativity and kindness go a long way. It’s not always about pointing out what’s wrong—it’s about showing what partnership looks like.
Today, our mornings are full of teamwork and giggles. Adam still enjoys his quiet time—but not before making sure our little ones are set up for the day. And me? I finally feel supported—and seen.
**Marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s a journey—and a playful, loving nudge can make all the difference.**
